Thursday, February 02, 2006

My class-06S37-Divided?

My very first impression of the class was quite a good one.All the ppl seems very nice.Heh and i got lotsa vs friends too.4 others to be exact.

I was really hoping that this will be a very united class,where classmates could talk to each other freely without feeling really left out and being really entu about their own class and being involve in class activities such as class outing etc..

Guess it didn't really go as i had hope for.It seems that as the week goes by, the class is getting more divided.There are already some distinct groups in the class already.yepz the class hav formed their own 'clique'. Not that it's bad or anything but yeah,ppl tend to feel left out and it doesn's feel like we are classmates at all.The boys have their own groups.The gals hav their own.

I personally tend to keep to the boys group.It feels like there is nothing to talk to the gals.Hard to come up with a subject.Maybe it's cos i hav been in a all boys sch for 10 yrs? but yeah,i'd been a real serious guy since secondary sch days so generally wun joke around UNLEss vs ppl or the boys are ard.Classic case of class not being united is the jts.onli 12 ppl from our class went.It's really pathetic.Some ppl had reasons for not going.i understand perfectly.wad abt the rest?

To be honest,i din wanna go in the first place.i felt that since so many of my friends were not going.wad for?SORANG only.but yeah,the seniors came to talk to me and told me to go,felt that i should go as a form of respect.Law and kia jit went too,so it was not tat bad.

The point here is that,why isit that not everybody want to go for jts? Isit becos they dun feel that it's worth going? why is that so? figure it out yrself ppl!! These past 4 weeks, i hav talked to lotsa classmates from vs in other classes.Chengwei,C.t of one class had already organised 2 class outings and lotsa ppl went for it.The bond of their class is just amazing. Do we hav to depend on the C.t or A.c.t to organise class outings? i dun think so.anyone can do it too.for ppl in our class who is reading this blog, we will be organising a class outing soon.hopefully u all can come.

Kk back to the topic.so wad shld be the solution to this?i'll say it depends on the class.everyone has a role to play and we must try to understand other ppl.Let's take an example.our c.t kia jit.well it;s seems he has portray himself as a wierd fellow.His msn nick is loner.In class he sits by himself.Everytime he talks to ppl its about tutorials!!! hence few ppl talk to him.Ppl from vs understands him and his character so we still talk to him and hang out with him.But yeah lotsa ppl wun understand and may not like him.i hope ppl will try to understand him..the boys been giving him opportunities to talk more with the gals.take today break for example,we sat at different table as the gals,but kia jit was forced by us to sit with the gals :) it turned out pretty well i think.

anyway yepz hopefully the class will start to be united.The ppl in our class are realllly NICE!!so really hope all will turn out well...

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